Spanking and Domestic Discipline

Where to begin...

I haven't really decided where I want this blog to go, or end up. Whether it be a journal type thing, my rants about spanking (or lack thereof), or my findings in the online spanking world. ie, pics, stories etc. Maybe I will do a combination of the three :P

You see, I am a spanko. My husband however, doesn't like the whole idea of spanking me for punishment, and won't, even if it's something that really bugs him. He says I should be responsible for myself, and in a way I kinda agree, but it's not that I think I need the discipline, I need to know that he is willing to help me, and put my wants and desires above his ideas about women. I know, that sounds selfish.

I was reading Kasey's journal at http://illbeg.blogspot.com and in one of her posts she talks about why spanking works. Here is an exerpt:

" I think the reason this works is that I really like spankings when I am not asking for them – I really try to be good and I am bad and then I am punished. So, the only way to get that is to try really hard not to be spanked. I know it is weird and illogical: I love being spanked, so I try not to be spanked -- which makes me love being spanked."


Thank you Kasey! I couldn't have put it better. The question is, how do I explain this to my hubby? I have annoyed him enough with e-mails and lengthy essays on spanking, that he has stopped reading them all together. His thoughts, as I said before, is that I should be responsible for myself, even though alot of things bug him and he thinks I should stop. He doesn't seem to understand that I desire and need him to help me, that I can't do a complete turn around in *snaps fingers* a split second.

If you have any suggestions please feel free to comment. I must leave for now. Fear Not, I will post again tomorrow :)

posted by Kendra @ 12:15 AM